Though distraction shouldn’t be your only coping skill, it can be incredibly useful for anxiety, sensory overload, urges to use self destructive behaviors, and overwhelming emotions. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, though, it can be hard to come up with a way to distract yourself in the moment. Here’s a list of 100 things to try in no particular order – some big, some small, some silly, some serious. Not every idea will be physically or financially accessible to every person, but hopefully you can find a few ideas that work for you
Read a book
Draw
Paint
Make a collage
Try bullet journaling
Write in a journal
Write a poem
Write a story
Do crosswords, sudoku, or other puzzles
Use fidget/stim toys
Cook
Bake
Scroll through Instagram
Explore Tik Tok
Make a blog/website/new social media account
Go down a Wikipedia rabbit hole
Watch a YouTuber you love
Discover new YouTubers
Go for a walk
Go to a gym
Go swimming
Go for a bike ride
Make plans with a friend for sometime soon
Text someone you haven’t talked to in a while
Ask a friend/family member to tell you about something they’re interested in
Call your parents or other family members you don’t live with
People watch
Play “car games” like trying to find each letter of the alphabet around you without getting up or moving things around
Make a cup of tea/coffee/cocoa
Have a snack
Go get ice cream
Plan a dream vacation
Do some work or schoolwork
Netflix!
Listen to a podcast
Reread, rewatch, or re-listen to a piece of media that’s comforting
Cuddle a stuffed animal
Play pretend or daydream
Run errands
Give yourself a small budget to “impulse buy” with and head to your favorite store
Have a picnic
Write a thank you note
Start a gratitude journal
Do household chores
Play with a pet
Clean something
Organize something – clothes, a drawer, papers
Volunteer
Attend a protest/march/rally
Blow bubbles
Learn about or use tarot or oracle cards
Go to (or stream) a movie
Drive around
Find a park with trails and go for a hike
Drive through a fast food or coffee place
Go to a park and do a favorite activity like reading or art there
Buy yourself flowers
Plant something, or care for plants you already have
Do some yoga or gentle stretching
Try a guided meditation
Read children’s stories
Hang out with a child (yours or a friend/relative’s)
Do random acts of kindness
Plan your outfit for today or tomorrow
Plan your outfit for an upcoming event
Go to a local farm
Go to a zoo or aquarium
Go to a museum
Swing on a swing set
Build or assemble something
Rearrange a room (or plan how you would if you don’t have the ability to now)
Teach your pet a new trick
Ask a friend or neighbor if there’s anything you could do to help them
Make (or buy) a gift for an upcoming birthday/anniversary/holiday
Send a letter to someone you love or miss
Assemble a care package for yourself or someone else
Go somewhere in your area that you’ve never been and always wanted to go
Take yourself on a date
Plan a date with your partner or a special night with your friends
Dance in the rain
Look at the stars
Play with mud
Run through a sprinkler
Weed a garden
Go through all your unmatched socks and find the matches
Take a shower
Take a bath
Listen to music
Play a card or board game
Do a jigsaw puzzle
Organize your photos
Delete old emails
Write a letter to the universe, God, or another higher power
Play an instrument or sing
Make lists – favorite things, to do list, reasons to keep going, skills and distractions that work fo you
Do a DIY home improvement project
Take a nap
Go outside and take photos
Get dressed up (or down) and have a photoshoot
Make a social media account for a pet